How to Anally Please A Man

How to anally please a man? Men not only have a sensitivity through their penis which can make them cum, there is pleasurable sexual sensitivity inside their anus. When anally pleasing a man with the right type of stimulation some guys are able to reach orgasm through their anus.

Many heterosexual men may be hesitant to accept anal simulation from their partner (of course homosexual men don’t have that problem!). Due to silly social pressures some men totally avoid any anal stimulation whether digitally or with a sex toy. If a man is open to being pleased anally he becomes open to the ability receive dual pleasure up to orgasm. The possibilities include anally pleasing a man during vaginal sexual intercourse with anal sex toys for men. Anal beads are very popular for men that like to be pleased anally.

Once a heterosexual man gets past the inhibitions of anal stimulation, there are several things that make it easier to stimulate a man anally. Besides anal sex toys for pleasing men, there are anal lubricants and desensitizing agents.

For men not experienced or reluctant to allow themselves to be anally pleased I recommend their partners start slow. The level of sexual arousal plays a big part in how much a man or woman can enjoy a sexual experience. Before attempting to anally please a man with sex toys, get him really aroused first. Extend foreplay to allow for him to get worked up enough that it lowers some of his inhibitions towards anally pleasing him.

Once he has reached a high level of arousal, use a good sex lubricant and start with light digital stimulation on the outside of his anus while you give him oral sex. Another variation, if he is very very clean (see anal cleaning kits), is to orally please his anus while stroking his penis with your hand. This will cause him to relax and get more aroused. As he gets more aroused increase anal stimulation by slightly penetrating his anus with a finger. Keep it light at first because the anus has a tendency to clench up as a reflex action.

Continue to give oral sex to him to allow his anus to better relax as you continue to increase penetration with your finger. Once your finger has made it about an inch or more inside, now you can try using an anal sex toy with lubrication to increase anal pleasure.

Have fun and experiment with different types of sex toys when anally pleasing men. Popular men’s anal sex toys and accessories for anally pleasing men are:
men’s anal beads and tools
prostate massagers
anal plugs
men’s anal starter toys

Outside of oral pleasure while anally pleasing a man, a suction or blowjob like sex toy can be used to stimulate his penis while a man is being anally pleased. Suction/blowjob sex toys available are pocket pussies, suction tubes, etc.

Remember to go slow with anal sex toys as anally pleasing a man takes a little patience at first. If trying to please a man anally gets too painful he may be ready to call it quits and never try again!

Using The We-Vibe For Difficult Female Orgasms – 90% Orgasm Rate!

Before describing using the We-Vibe for difficult female orgasms, I would like to describe my lovely lady. My girl is picky and hard to please. She does not care for many surprises (unlike most women) and she has a no-nonsense attitude. Nothing keeps her attention very long. She doesn’t cum easy. The good things about her? Everything else! She is thoughtful, kind, and honest (almost too honest at times!). You never have to guess what she is feeling or thinking…. she will tell you! And using the We-vibe for difficult female orgasms makes her an absolute horn-dog!

She had never owned a sex toy before I met her. This was hard to believe, but after being with her for a while, I could see that she has limited sexual experience. She is not big on experimenting but will try new things if presented and if it seems not far out.

As we got sexually involved she explained to me that she does not easily orgasm from regular sex. I figured that past partners just weren’t doing it right! During our initial experiences, I was able to make her reach orgasm a few times, but not enough in my book. She was ok with it because she has already come to the realization that she was just not going to have regular orgasms. But I was not settled on this. I never really settle on anything that is a challenge.

My challenge was to make reaching orgasm for her an expectation (didn’t realize how this would come back to bite me later!). When we discussed vibrators and how she never has one, I decided to pick her out what I thought was a good one. For her it did the trick at times through foreplay, but it still didn’t make her orgasm from regular sex.

So we visited New Orleans one night, a place she had never been, and we ventured into one of the many sex shops there. It took some convincing to spend over $100 dollars on a sex toy. She is not big on wasting money and did not believe the We-Vibe would be worth it. Our experience is documented here. After some discussion and testimonials from sex shop staff, we ended up buying a We-Vibe Sex Toy for Couples. When I say “for couples” it is mainly for the female as men don’t typically have trouble reaching orgasm unless they have Whiskey Dick.

We-Vibe III
We-Vibe 3

After over 2 years of use, one of the best things about using the We-Vibe for reaching difficult female orgasms is that it has continued to perform well. The We-Vibe is not a sex toy that one simply uses a few times and then stores it in an underwear drawer never to be used again. Using the we-vibe to reach female orgasms can become a regular thing. I learned this later when my woman started to want to have sex ALL THE TIME! There is a difference in female attitude towards sex when she knows that she will reach orgasm on a regular basis.

I started to be the one to say “Babe I’m tired…. I have a headache….lol!” She wasn’t having any of those excuses because she new that she could used the we-vibe to reach orgasm during normal sexual positions. One of the best things about it is that it is hands free. There may be occasions where she has to reach down and move it a little left or right, but that never stops her from reaching orgasms. Using the We-Vibe for difficult female orgasms has been a great thing for us. She expects to cum over 90% of the time when using the We-Vibe during regular sex positions.

What I mean by regular sex positions is that the We-Vibe is mostly hands free. You can use your imagination and try different positions and you should not be hampered by having to hold the We-Vibe in. We have tried all sorts of positions: Missionary, side scissors, doggy (best if she lies flat so she won’t have to hold the We-Vibe), reverse cowgirl (our favorite), her facing me on top, riding me in a chair, etc. Using the We-Vibe for difficult female orgasms is only limited by your imagination and the positions that turn you on.

She keeps a charger next to the bed for easy charging of the We-Vibe. She normally plugs it up a few minutes before we get in bed and it is adequately charged by the time we finish foreplay. Typically we have regular sex: Kissing, oral, and then intercourse. She enjoys regular intercourse without the We-Vibe, but has difficulty reaching orgasm without it. So after we go for a bit, she pulls the We-Vibe off the charger, slides it in (if the woman is wet enough, it can slide in while the penis is still inside her), and not long after she is having leg quaking orgasm. Occasionally she will have multiple orgasms if she can get past the initial post-orgasm sensitivity. Using the We-Vibe to reach orgasm makes for very strong orgasms. Usually I cum as she is “quaking” or soon after.

Some people might think that using the We-Vibe for difficult female orgasms ignores the real problem. Well for those people that feel that way, you can continue searching for that real problem while my woman is getting satisfied in bed by reaching orgasms almost nightly! Seriously, I am not for avoiding “real problems” but some women have had trouble reaching orgasms their whole lives. If using the We-Vibe for difficult orgasms works to make a woman sexually satisfied during regular sex, then use it!

We recommend using the We-Vibe for difficult female orgasms. When you are ready to have those “leg quaking” orgasms during regular sex, get your We-Vibe here!

Cuckolding and Wife Sharing Resources

It seems that wife sharing and cuckolding is on the rise. For some, this takes eroticness to the next level. So what is it about cuckolding and wife sharing that turns couples on? It seems that seeing a wife involved in sex with other men and doing things outside of what she normally does is a big turn on for cuckolding and wife sharing couples.

Some guys like to be the director of cuckold activities telling his wife what to do next. Other couples let the woman decide while the husband sits back and watches. It is also not uncommon for the husband to join in during the cuckold sex acts.

Cuckolding and wife sharing is not for everyone. This type of sexual activity takes a couple that does not have relationship security and jealousy issues. For some couples it may be more in their comfort zone to watch free cuckolding videos instead of participating in them. Free videos on cuckolding and wife sharing can be found on websites such as:

You may have to search around a bit to find videos that you like, but remember that these are free sites. Many of the videos are homemade which adds to the realism. These sites are ad supported so on some clicks an ad will pop up. When you see an ad pop up, all you have to do to watch the video is close the ad and reopen the video. There are many other sites that offer free cuckolding and wife sharing videos, but the above three should provide enough for you to see cuckold and wife sharing videos.

If a couple wants to actually participate in cuckolding and wife sharing then the best website to meet other interested parties is a pay site: Adult Friend Finder

Adult Friend Finder has been around for quite awhile and is a good resource for finding other couples to participate in wife swapping orgies and other men to participate in cuckolding. Adult Friend Finder also has girls interested in threesomes and other sexual activity. If you are interested in finding someone for cuckolding or a threesome then Adult Friend Finder is a good place to start.