How To Talk Dirty To A Guy Examples

Some girls get labeled as “goodie girl” and could shed that label, at least with her man in bed, by taking advantage of a few examples of talking dirty to a guy. Talking dirty to a guy can improve the sexual experience for a guy and give a girl a chance to cut loose during sex and have a little more fun. It also gives a girl an avenue to have her man thinking about her until the next sexual experience. Below I describe a few key things about how to talk dirty to a guy along with talking dirty to a guy examples.

How to Talk Dirty To A Guy – 4 Key Things to Focus On

1. Relaxed Effort – the sound of the dirty talk plays a role in the initial turn on of the guy. When talking dirty to a guy, it shouldn’t sound forced. The goal is to sound as natural as possible. It helps to think of it as a role-play scenario.

2. Role-play – talking dirty to a guy is a lot easier if a role-play attitude is adopted. This doesn’t mean that you have to dress up in a sexy role-playing outfit to talk dirty to a guy (although it adds to the experience). This basically means that you are not totally yourself when turning on a guy with dirty sex talk. This is a part of what turns a guy on when you are talking dirty.  Being outside side yourself during sex is erotic when it exposes potential deep desires that are commensurate with the level of your arousal and your desire to please your man.

The purpose of role-play is to give you the separation from your perceived image and expectations. During role-play, you are obviously not yourself! The things you say and do are under the guise of a nasty erotic slutty girl that is absolutely in love with her man’s penis. She is a girl ready to show her man that she knows what he wants and is submissively ready to give it to him.
Having this attitude is how to talk dirty to a guy. It adds erotic realism and allows a man to relax and take it all in. You have to both have the understanding that this is only to turn him on and allow you to express yourself while in bed.

3. Voice and inflections – use your most relaxed feminine voice while talking dirty to a guy. The vocal tone and sexy inflections you use can often be enough to get a guy turned on even over the phone.

4. Pet names – using pet names while talking dirty to a guy is another aspect that adds to the sexual experience. This is actually an easy one as many couples already have pet names for each other. But even if a couple already have pet names for each other, it can be more along the lines of role-play if different pet names are used when talking dirty to a guy. Some common and universal examples of pet names when talking dirty to a guy are “Baby”,”Daddy”, or “Big Daddy”. Your creativity and own personal pet names should come into play here.

How to Talk Dirty To A Guy – What to Say

What you say when talking dirty to a guy is something that can have him thinking of how freaky you can be long after the sexual encounter. If you are uncomfortable with some of the statements below, try starting with less explicit talk first to get a feel for your guy. Even though its role-play, some couples may not be comfortable with calling the female slut, whore, etc.. It’s up to the participants to find the comfort zone, but I suggest at least trying to push perceived boundaries when talking dirty to a guy.

Below are some examples of how to talk dirty to a guy. Be creative and use your own variations and combinations of these examples according to your style and your role-play. These are also good enough to use as they are!

Examples of How to Talk Dirty to a Guy:

Am I your….
nasty girl?
nasty little slut?
nasty (insert hair color) head slut?
freaky (girl, slut, whore, etc)?

Is my….
mouth wet enough on your dick?
pussy wet enough on your dick?
pussy tight and wet enough for you?

Do you like ….
when I give head and swallow your cum?
when I give sloppy head until you cum?
use no hands while sucking your dick?
your dick to touch the back of my throat?
your dick to go deep in my pussy?
what I’m doing to your dick (insert pet name).
how it feels inside my ass?
how wet my pussy gets for you?
watching my head bob up and down on your dick?
seeing your dick slide in and out of me with my pussy cum on it?
seeing me on my hands and knees with my ass up waiting for your dick?
seeing me on my needs with your dick in my mouth?
watching me gag on your dick?

Do you want to ….
put it in my ass tonight?
fill my pussy up with you hot cum?
cum in my ass tonight?
see me play with my pussy with a vibrator/dildo?
see me play with my pussy and get my fingers all wet?
see me give you head and then play with your cum with my tongue?
see me swallow all of your cum?
see me suck your dick until you explode in my mouth?

I like when you …..
pull my hair while doing me doggy.
pull my hair while I suck your dick.
pull my hair while you f-ck me hard and fast.
put your tongue inside my pussy.
lick my pussy and get it all wet before you f-ck me.

I want you to….
video tape me sucking your dick and using my tongue to play with your cum.
video tape you cumming inside me and my pussy dripping with your cum.
video tape us f-cking tonight.
lick my pussy until I cum and throb in your mouth.

Am I ….
doing good (insert pet name)?
making you feel good (insert pet name)?

Thinking about ….
sucking on your dick until you cum in my mouth is making me wet.
what we did last night is making me wet again.
you licking my pussy is making me horny.
using a vibrator on my pussy while you watch is getting me hot.

You can take the above examples of how to talk dirty to a guy and make it sexy and erotic for your man. To get the most out of it, being creative and pushing your boundaries is the key. How to talk dirty to a guy examples above just provides a base that you can use to develop your own sexy style and erotic twist to turn your guy on…. with your mouth.

Sexual Bondage Fantasies Tips

What is the turn on with sexual bondage? Sexual bondage puts a woman or man in an all but helpless position. He or she is at the sexual mercy of their partner. They can be teased and pleased in erotic anticipation as to what will come next in their sexual bondage fantasies. A man or woman can take total control of their partner as they decide what to do next. Sexual bondage can be a fun and exciting way to spice up a sex life for a couple that is open to exploring sexual fantasies.

Sexual Bondage Fantasy
Sexual Bondage Fantasy


There are several types of sex bondage accessories available. If a couple wants to get the most out of sex bondage, consider using a sex bondage kit in combination with sexy role-play. I recommend the cloth type restraints vs metal handcuffs as they won’t likely cause painful bruising to you or your partner’s wrists and ankles. A blindfold is essential to maintaining the helplessness and sexual anticipation of you and your partner. If a light tease turns your partner on, various feather teasers are available to tantalize your partner.
Don’t underestimate sexual role-playing when using sex bondage in your bedroom fantasies. A sexual role-play costume is a nice addition to your sex bondage night in the bedroom.

    Sex Bondage Tips:

1. Don’t tie ankle and wrist restraints too tight. This can turn a sexy erotic night of sex bondage into an undesirable one quickly.

2. Have a safe word that ends the sex bondage activities. This gets you both out of the fantasy if someone gets uncomfortable.

3. Pick sex bondage novelties that are of good quality. Poor quality bondage material can make things painful and may not hold up well for future sexual bondage fantasies.

4. Have an idea of the roles you will play and what you will both do during the sex bondage fantasy. Consider sexy role-play costumes and ideas.

5. Make sex bondage fun for both couples. Be outside your self by really getting into the role you play.

6. Take turns in your sex bondage fantasies. It can get boring if one partner is always the one restrained.

7. Have all of the things you need handy such as lubrication, feather teasers, whips, and sex toys. You don’t want to have to stop the sexual bondage fantasy to find something like a sex toy or lube.

8. Don’t make it last too long. Have an idea when the sexual bondage fantasy will turn into hot and erotic sex.

9. This may be an obvious one, but include plenty of oral sex in the sexual bondage fantasy.

10. Use quality sex toys during the sexual bondage fantasy. Their are many sex toys to choose from perfect for women and also perfect for men.


Adult Sexy Role-Play Costumes For Curvy Women

The average girl is not a bean pole model that is depicted modeling adult wear. Most women have beautiful and sexy curves that bring sex appeal to the bedroom. It seems like adult sexy role-play costumes for curvy women do not get enough model display. Below are some of the adult role-play costumes that are better designed for sexy curvy women. Adult Sexy Role-Play Costumes has more selection of costumes, but not every adult role-play costume on our previous site has a design that works for women with any sexy curves at all.


Office Tramp - Sexy Adult Role-Play Costume Ideas
Office Tramp – Sexy Adult Role-Play Costume Ideas


Office Tramp – Sexy Adult Role-Play Costume Ideas
Sir, I’m ready for DICK-tation!
Sizes available for petite to plus size women.

Work your way up the corporate ladder! The see-through blouse gives him a titillating view of your breasts while the striped mini-skirt reveals your legs in all their glory! Includes matching thong and mini-tie.


Naughty Bedroom Nurse - Sexy Adult Role-Play Costumes
Naughty Bedroom Nurse – Sexy Adult Role-Play Costume Ideas


Naughty Bedroom Nurse – Sexy Adult Role-Play Costume Ideas
Need Some Extra Loving Care?
This adult sexy role-playing costume looks great in petite through plus sizes.
Not only does this nurse love giving sponge baths and kissing your boo-boos, but she’s got the cure for your blue balls! The plunging neckline shows off her cleavage as well as some teasing side boob, while the stretchy nylon & spandex material hugs her hips. Ask her to perform a little CPR – Cock Pumping & Rubbing – or just turn your head and cough while she takes your temperature! This sexy nurse lingerie includes nurse’s hat to complete the fantasy.


French Maid Baby Doll - Sexy Adult Costumes For Curvy Women
French Maid Baby Doll – Sexy Adult Costumes For Curvy Women


French Maid Baby Doll – Sexy Adult Role-Play Costumes
Spice things up in the bedroom with this luscious mesh french maid babydoll featuring lace up front, apron and open back with bow detail. Add the included matching headpiece to finish the coquettish look.


Sexy Incognito Wig - Sexy Adult Role-Play Costumes
Sexy Incognito Wig – Sexy Adult Role-Play Costume Ideas

Sexy Incognito Wig – Sexy Adult Role-Play Costume Ideas
Transform your image!

Once you slip on this hot wig, you won’t even be able to recognize yourself in the mirror!

The black wig is cut in an elegant bob, turning you into a mysterious figure perfect for a bit of bedroom roleplaying or partying!

The hair is attached to the wig in layers to create a full and thick head of hair with a minimum of fuss. There are two straps on the inside of the wig to hold it firmly to your regular hairstyle or a pair of bobby pins so your wig won’t slip off.

The Foxy Incognito Wig is available in one size only, but will fit a wide range of heads. The hair measures 12 inches in the back and 6 inches in the front, and the wig is imported. The Foxy Incognito Wig is available only in midnight black.


Sexy Blonde Wig - Sexy Adult Role-Play Costume Ideas
Sexy Blonde Wig – Sexy Adult Role-Play Costume Ideas

Sexy Blonde Wig – Sexy Adult Role-Play Costume Ideas
Blondes have more fun… and now you will too!

Change your hair color or style without a pricey trip to the salon with this fun wig!

The blond wig falls down your back, giving you the elegant look of long hair with having to take care of it! It’s a great compliment to any roleplaying games you might play with your lover or any costume party.

The wig is crafted in layers, creating the illusion of a thick and full head of hair. And there’s even straps that you can fashion to your current hair style or a pair of hairpins to keep your wig from falling off!

The Diva Incognito Wig is available in one size only, but will fit a wide range of heads.