Some girls get labeled as “goodie girl” and could shed that label, at least with her man in bed, by taking advantage of a few examples of talking dirty to a guy. Talking dirty to a guy can improve the sexual experience for a guy and give a girl a chance to cut loose during sex and have a little more fun. It also gives a girl an avenue to have her man thinking about her until the next sexual experience. Below I describe a few key things about how to talk dirty to a guy along with talking dirty to a guy examples.
How to Talk Dirty To A Guy – 4 Key Things to Focus On
1. Relaxed Effort – the sound of the dirty talk plays a role in the initial turn on of the guy. When talking dirty to a guy, it shouldn’t sound forced. The goal is to sound as natural as possible. It helps to think of it as a role-play scenario.
2. Role-play – talking dirty to a guy is a lot easier if a role-play attitude is adopted. This doesn’t mean that you have to dress up in a sexy role-playing outfit to talk dirty to a guy (although it adds to the experience). This basically means that you are not totally yourself when turning on a guy with dirty sex talk. This is a part of what turns a guy on when you are talking dirty. Being outside side yourself during sex is erotic when it exposes potential deep desires that are commensurate with the level of your arousal and your desire to please your man.
The purpose of role-play is to give you the separation from your perceived image and expectations. During role-play, you are obviously not yourself! The things you say and do are under the guise of a nasty erotic slutty girl that is absolutely in love with her man’s penis. She is a girl ready to show her man that she knows what he wants and is submissively ready to give it to him.
Having this attitude is how to talk dirty to a guy. It adds erotic realism and allows a man to relax and take it all in. You have to both have the understanding that this is only to turn him on and allow you to express yourself while in bed.
3. Voice and inflections – use your most relaxed feminine voice while talking dirty to a guy. The vocal tone and sexy inflections you use can often be enough to get a guy turned on even over the phone.
4. Pet names – using pet names while talking dirty to a guy is another aspect that adds to the sexual experience. This is actually an easy one as many couples already have pet names for each other. But even if a couple already have pet names for each other, it can be more along the lines of role-play if different pet names are used when talking dirty to a guy. Some common and universal examples of pet names when talking dirty to a guy are “Baby”,”Daddy”, or “Big Daddy”. Your creativity and own personal pet names should come into play here.
How to Talk Dirty To A Guy – What to Say
What you say when talking dirty to a guy is something that can have him thinking of how freaky you can be long after the sexual encounter. If you are uncomfortable with some of the statements below, try starting with less explicit talk first to get a feel for your guy. Even though its role-play, some couples may not be comfortable with calling the female slut, whore, etc.. It’s up to the participants to find the comfort zone, but I suggest at least trying to push perceived boundaries when talking dirty to a guy.
Below are some examples of how to talk dirty to a guy. Be creative and use your own variations and combinations of these examples according to your style and your role-play. These are also good enough to use as they are!
Examples of How to Talk Dirty to a Guy:
Am I your….
nasty little slut?
nasty (insert hair color) head slut?
freaky (girl, slut, whore, etc)?
mouth wet enough on your dick?
pussy wet enough on your dick?
pussy tight and wet enough for you?
Do you like ….
when I give head and swallow your cum?
when I give sloppy head until you cum?
use no hands while sucking your dick?
your dick to touch the back of my throat?
your dick to go deep in my pussy?
what I’m doing to your dick (insert pet name).
how it feels inside my ass?
how wet my pussy gets for you?
watching my head bob up and down on your dick?
seeing your dick slide in and out of me with my pussy cum on it?
seeing me on my hands and knees with my ass up waiting for your dick?
seeing me on my needs with your dick in my mouth?
watching me gag on your dick?
Do you want to ….
put it in my ass tonight?
fill my pussy up with you hot cum?
cum in my ass tonight?
see me play with my pussy with a vibrator/dildo?
see me play with my pussy and get my fingers all wet?
see me give you head and then play with your cum with my tongue?
see me swallow all of your cum?
see me suck your dick until you explode in my mouth?
I like when you …..
pull my hair while doing me doggy.
pull my hair while I suck your dick.
pull my hair while you f-ck me hard and fast.
put your tongue inside my pussy.
lick my pussy and get it all wet before you f-ck me.
I want you to….
video tape me sucking your dick and using my tongue to play with your cum.
video tape you cumming inside me and my pussy dripping with your cum.
video tape us f-cking tonight.
lick my pussy until I cum and throb in your mouth.
Am I ….
doing good (insert pet name)?
making you feel good (insert pet name)?
Thinking about ….
sucking on your dick until you cum in my mouth is making me wet.
what we did last night is making me wet again.
you licking my pussy is making me horny.
using a vibrator on my pussy while you watch is getting me hot.
You can take the above examples of how to talk dirty to a guy and make it sexy and erotic for your man. To get the most out of it, being creative and pushing your boundaries is the key. How to talk dirty to a guy examples above just provides a base that you can use to develop your own sexy style and erotic twist to turn your guy on…. with your mouth.