How can sex toys increase a wife’s sex drive? Early in a couples’ relationship, neither partner takes a lot to get them in the mood sexually. A sexy glance, a sensual touch, or just the thought of the other person can be enough for a woman’s libido. But what happens as the relationship goes on? What happens when things get a little more routine and the newness wears off?
As time goes on, wives can come to expect that they will not have regular orgasms when having sex. Some women then start to lose the desire to have sex as often and can use the excuse of headaches, tired and sleepiness, or just not feeling well. These excuses can boil down to one thing. She simply does not look forward to having sex. If she does not expect to have an orgasm through sexual intercourse or oral sex, what is in it for her? Sure sex is still special and sure she probably finds her man attractive, but if she can’t reach sexual climax, she is at an unfair disadvantage compared to a man.
As we all know, men can cum almost at will. For some men it takes less then 30 seconds to reach orgasm and he can then roll over and play dead while his wife pretends like its ok. Well its not ok! The sexual desire gap gets larger and larger as this lack of sexual satisfaction continues. She needs something to look forward to regularly. A wife needs to know that she can reach orgasm at least close to 50% of the time she has sex or more. This expectation alone will increase a wife’s sex drive. If she has the thought in her head that she has a high potential of cumming she will want to have sex more often.
Let’s face it. It is hard for most men to make their woman cum on a regular basis. There are some men that can and there are some women that have a sensitivity that allows them to come very easily but these are exceptions. For the average couple that has been together for a few years, the woman can expect not to reach orgasm from most nights of having sex while the man continues to shake and tremble during his orgasms.
So how do you increase a wife’s sex drive? By using whatever tools are available to help get the job done. I’m talking about using sex toys to help increase a wife’s sex drive by giving her more frequent orgasms. Some men may be against their women using sex toys. Maybe it reminds them that they can’t get the job done. Or maybe they feel like it takes away from the “specialness” of a night of sex with their woman. Well in my opinion, this is unfair and a selfish attitude to have. If this is how a man thinks then he is ok with his woman not having orgasms even half the times that he does.
If using sex toys to increase a wife’s sex drive works, then why not use them? Why not give a woman a chance at more regular mind blowing orgasms? If sex toys work to increase a wife’s libido, then it is a win win situation for both parties. The female gets to enjoy her sexual experiences more with her partner and the increased sex drive makes her want to have sex more often.
In using sex toys to increase a wife’s sex drive, there are several to chose from. A couple should take their time and try several. Buy a storage box for a collection of sex toys and start collecting! I recommend a couple either visit sex shops in person (which can be uncomfortable for newbies) or order sex toys using a reputable and discreet online sex stores such as Adam & Eve.
Which toys do we recommend? Each couple should have a basic set of sex toys and then experiment with more later. For starters, I recommend two:
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The first sex toy recommended is a quality cordless dildo like the Lelo Ina Pleasure Object. While it is a little pricey, it has the shape, texture, and power to help a man please his woman while giving her oral sex or during other foreplay activities. It also has the durability to last for many many uses. With any sex toy you want quality and ease of use. The Lelo Gigi is rechargeble, easy to grip, and easy to clean. A woman can also use this on her own….
The next sex toy I recommend is the best selling We-Vibe II. This sex toy is absolutely amazing bringing women to orgasm through sexual intercourse. It is designed to be used during sexual intercourse by being inserted into a woman’s vagina while allowing her partner to still penetrate and slide alongside of it. This vibrator can be a sex life saver! It really really works well and can help to increase a wife’s sex drive by making her expect to have regular orgasms during intercourse.
Remember, when trying sex toys with your partner, it takes patience to learn how to use them correctly and effectively for you AND your partner. Experiment, have patience, and have fun trying different sex toys to increase a wife’s sex drive.